Month: October 2013

Castle, Forest, Island, Sea

Castle, Forest, Island, Sea

 

This site is so wonderful, I haven’t had the time I’d like to go through it completely, but so far it’s incredibly interesting!

This game is made up of 9 different chapters, and each chapter explores a different question in philosophy. As you play, the game builds up an idea of how you feel about that question.

Grieving the Loss of Religion

I’ve often vocalized the difficulty of the transitional period between being a devout, Lutheran, pastor’s kid who’s identity was largely in her religious identity to an atheist. When first identifying as such, I often experienced feelings of doubt and regret, although it obviously wasn’t a decision. I felt like I was already a terrible atheist for missing my religious identity, I mean, an enormous aspect of my life was suddenly gone. I didn’t realize that this was not only normal, but probably to be expected.

The other day in one of my religion courses, we discussed the concept of cognitive dissonance: that is, the idea that conflict between beliefs or loss of belief can actually result in grief. For instance, when a loved one dies you will most likely experience grief. It made so much sense, and perfectly explained how I often felt and still occasionally feel as I adjust to my new beliefs or lack thereof. Throughout this process I’ve remained fond of religion in general, but now I realize that it’s not just because I was pining for my own.

One Atheist’s Thoughts on Prayer

Not surprisingly, as an atheist, I don’t pray. It makes me especially uncomfortable when I’m asked to lead prayer, because for one I don’t believe the words I am expected to say, but I feel it’s disrespectful at some level as well. However, I am not wholly against the concept of prayer, and here’s why: although I don’t believe that praying can directly cause anything to happen on its own, such as God listening and then solving that problem, I don’t mind assuming an attitude of prayer if asked. To me, an attitude of prayer means taking the matter in question into myself to consciously reflect on it. I believe there are subtle ways this sort of action can actually have results. By thinking about something outside of myself, I believe that such reflection can translate into my own actions and words, and while this might not directly benefit the matter, it can certainly have an effect. For example, if I am asked to pray for someone, I don’t shirk away from the word. I set aside a few moments or minutes to consider the person and empathize with his or her situation. The key word is empathy here- it takes more personal effort than just asking god to take care of it (or asking god to help you learn how to handle it yourself). If I am actively making an effort to empathize in thought, I will likely see a change in the way I interact with others, presumably in a more compassionate manner.